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my boyfriend is begging me to communicate with him and i really want to but i cant. he's asking me to express myself but it's so hard, why i don't no i wish i could but i get really defensive and shut down what's wrong with me why am i like this.
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| Gold | 12/03/2010 |
| You're afraid to get hurt. That you put your heart even further out there that he may hurt it and then use it against you. Take it slow, try for a week to announce out loud to him what you are feeling. I feel pretty good today, if it changes by dinner, I feel tiered, does not count. It is a physical feeling. I am mentaly exhausted. After a week put the word because behind your feel statements and finish the sentence. I feel pretty good today because....... and just work up slowly from there. If you end up moveing along faster then that then good for you, but don't try to do more then you can handle because you will end up resenting him when it is you that tried to push to fast. It can happen, you don't have to be an open book but you do need to start trusting him with atleast the little things. GL!!! |
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| sinagelh17 | 12/03/2010 |
| im very much like that too, im gettting better though, i know how it feels you kinda know what you want to say but you cant really put it into words? just try explaining this to him and tell him to be patient and keep reminding your self that you cant have the full benefit of your relationship without communication and after time it will get easier to talk to him |
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