i think about it everyday, if maybe im just a bad daughter who should have more respect for her mom. but its so hard to respect her. i try to do everything that i can the right way, like at our house we are always trying to get everyone to do their own dishes, wash their own clothes  and pick up after them selves, basically me and my mom are tired of cleaning up after everyone else. i dont know how she doesnt see that i try..i do my own laundry, i try to do my own dishes ( but its hard when the boys have left a pile in there ) i pick up after my self 9 times out of 10, but when there are unwashed dishes in the sink they are mine, and when i tell her i do my own clothes she acts like she doesnt beleive me, it seems like when i think i've done it right her standards are raised or something, or she doesnt say anything about it. when you dont feel like your ever good enough for some one its so hard to treat them right, how can i fix this?

im new to this site and im kind of glad i've found it. i have been looking on the internet for help for my depression which has recently become unbearable. it feels like a site like this might do some good for me, i guess we'll see.