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Offline skylarhellbound

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Hello
« on: February 21, 2012, 05:53:29 AM »
Hello, again. Back to my monotonous life and my ever-present wallowing in self pity because I can't grow a pair and fix my own life. I'm completely and utterly pathetic, but of course you already know that... Everyone knows that. The people here are just too stupid to admit it. To admit the fact that they know I'm in pain but secretly hope I don't notice that they've noticed my lack of excitement that I use to have ownership of, the absence of care that should be given to my education, or even the ignorance of my friendships that are dissipating from my daily routine. STOP. Please... Help me.

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« on: February 21, 2012, 05:53:29 AM »

Offline Bougie

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Re: Hello
« Reply #1 on: February 23, 2012, 07:17:22 PM »
Start by not talking to yourself this way. Your subconscious believes what it hears and doesn't care who says it. So if you tell it you are worthless it believes it. That is why emotional and verbal abuse are so scarring. Tell yourself positive things and start helping someone outside yourself. Measure yourself with a different yard stick. You can start by measuring how many compliments you give others and you a day. Be sure to set goals of how many you want to give out.

Next tell us why you feel this way about yourself you can't help fix a problem you when you don't know what it is.

Offline sinahm

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Re: Hello
« Reply #2 on: February 23, 2012, 07:24:54 PM »
i would like to help but i cant unless you expand a little here