About behavioral problems
Tantrums, defiance or aggressive behaviour that are frequent and intense can strain family life. Interventions usually involve the parents, with practical strategies for routines, limits and communication, and work with the child adapted to their age.
Psychotherapists are professionals trained in one or more models of psychotherapy (psychodynamic, systemic, humanistic, cognitive-behavioural…). The protected title and requirements vary by country; profiles show each professional’s training and registration.
Getting mental health care in Hong Kong SAR China
Public health system · Hospital Authority (HA)
Public psychiatric care is provided through Hospital Authority psychiatric specialist outpatient clinics, usually after referral by a doctor; new cases are triaged as urgent, semi-urgent or stable. Since 1 January 2026 eligible persons pay HK$250 per specialist clinic attendance plus HK$20 per drug item. Urgent cases are usually seen within about a week, but median waits for stable cases were roughly 31 to 42 weeks in some clusters in 2024-25. More information
How to check that a professional is licensed
- Hong Kong Institute of Clinical Psychologists (HKICP), accredited under the government's Accredited Registers Scheme. Psychologists are not regulated by statute in Hong Kong and the title is not legally protected. Check whether a clinical psychologist is on the HKICP register, which is accredited under the voluntary Accredited Registers Scheme.
- Hong Kong Association of Educational Psychologists (HKAEP), accredited under the Accredited Registers Scheme. Registration is voluntary; HKAEP keeps the accredited register for educational psychologists.
- Hong Kong Psychological Society (HKPS). HKPS runs a voluntary professional registration for psychologists; it is not a statutory licence. Search the official register
Urgent help in Hong Kong SAR China
If your life or someone else's is in danger, call the emergency number now. These services can help at any time:
Information reviewed in November 2026 · Sources: ha.org.hk, ha.org.hk, info.gov.hk, hspr.cuhk.edu.hk
Signs to look out for
All children test limits and have tantrums at times. It may be worth seeking help when defiance, aggression, intense tantrums, lying, breaking rules or destructive behaviour are frequent, last for months, happen in several settings such as home and school, and cause problems with family life, learning or friendships. Sudden changes in behaviour can also signal stress, anxiety or difficulties elsewhere.
What helps: treatments and professionals
Parent training programmes based on behavioural principles have strong evidence for children’s behaviour problems. Family therapy and cognitive-behavioural approaches for the child or teenager, including emotional regulation and problem-solving skills, also help. Child and adolescent psychologists, clinical psychologists, family therapists and educational psychologists usually lead the work. An assessment can identify contributing factors such as ADHD, learning difficulties or anxiety.
When to seek urgent help
Contact your local emergency services if a child or teenager is seriously hurting themselves or others, has a weapon, is missing, or talks about suicide. Seek urgent help too if you suspect drug use with signs of intoxication. If you feel you might lose control and harm your child, step away safely and seek support immediately; asking for help is responsible.
What you can do in the meantime
Notice and praise specific good behaviour, and spend a little one-to-one time each day doing something your child enjoys. Keep rules few, clear and consistent between adults, with calm, predictable consequences. Avoid shouting and physical punishment, which tend to worsen behaviour. Look after your own stress and sleep, and talk to the school to work together.
What does a psychotherapist do?
A psychotherapist helps people understand and change emotional, relational and behavioural patterns through a structured therapeutic relationship. Their work is shaped by one or more models, such as cognitive-behavioural, psychodynamic, systemic, humanistic or integrative therapy. They meet individuals, couples, families or groups, usually in regular sessions, and spend time outside sessions on notes, preparation and their own supervision.
When to see a psychotherapist
Psychotherapy suits people who want to work in depth on recurring difficulties: anxiety, low mood, relationship patterns, self-esteem, the effects of past experiences or major life transitions. It can also help when you feel stuck without a clear diagnosis. If you need a formal diagnosis, a specific psychological assessment or medication, a clinical psychologist or psychiatrist may need to be involved.
How to choose
When choosing, check the licence and training, the approach they use and whether they have experience with what you need. Consider practical aspects too: language, price, location or online sessions and availability. The relationship with the professional matters a great deal; if after a few sessions it does not feel right, it is fine to change.
Frequently asked questions
Does the public health system in Hong Kong SAR China cover psychological care?
Public psychiatric care is provided through Hospital Authority psychiatric specialist outpatient clinics, usually after referral by a doctor; new cases are triaged as urgent, semi-urgent or stable. Since 1 January 2026 eligible persons pay HK$250 per specialist clinic attendance plus HK$20 per drug item. Urgent cases are usually seen within about a week, but median waits for stable cases were roughly 31 to 42 weeks in some clusters in 2024-25.
How do I check that a psychotherapist is licensed in Hong Kong SAR China?
Hong Kong Institute of Clinical Psychologists (HKICP), accredited under the government's Accredited Registers Scheme: Psychologists are not regulated by statute in Hong Kong and the title is not legally protected. Check whether a clinical psychologist is on the HKICP register, which is accredited under the voluntary Accredited Registers Scheme.