About behavioral problems
Tantrums, defiance or aggressive behaviour that are frequent and intense can strain family life. Interventions usually involve the parents, with practical strategies for routines, limits and communication, and work with the child adapted to their age.
Psychotherapists are professionals trained in one or more models of psychotherapy (psychodynamic, systemic, humanistic, cognitive-behavioural…). The protected title and requirements vary by country; profiles show each professional’s training and registration.
Getting mental health care in Israel
Public health system · Health funds (Kupot Holim) under the National Health Insurance Law
Since the July 2015 mental health insurance reform, psychiatric and psychotherapy services are provided by the four health funds as part of the basic basket. The State Comptroller (2020) and the Myers-JDC-Brookdale Institute found that waiting times for intake and psychotherapy are often very long.
How to check that a professional is licensed
- Ministry of Health, Psychologists' Register (Pinkas HaPsychologim). The title psychologist is protected and only people listed in the Ministry of Health register may use it. Registration alone does not prove a specialisation, so also check for a recognised specialist status (e.g. clinical, educational). Search the official register
- Ministry of Health (licensed physicians register). Physicians are licensed by the Ministry of Health and can be checked by name or licence number in the same public registry of licensed health professionals. Search the official register
Urgent help in Israel
If your life or someone else's is in danger, call the emergency number now. These services can help at any time:
- 102 · Fire
- 1201 · ERAN – Emotional First Aid
Information reviewed in November 2026 · Sources: gov.il, library.mevaker.gov.il, brookdale.jdc.org.il
Signs to look out for
All children test limits and have tantrums at times. It may be worth seeking help when defiance, aggression, intense tantrums, lying, breaking rules or destructive behaviour are frequent, last for months, happen in several settings such as home and school, and cause problems with family life, learning or friendships. Sudden changes in behaviour can also signal stress, anxiety or difficulties elsewhere.
What helps: treatments and professionals
Parent training programmes based on behavioural principles have strong evidence for children’s behaviour problems. Family therapy and cognitive-behavioural approaches for the child or teenager, including emotional regulation and problem-solving skills, also help. Child and adolescent psychologists, clinical psychologists, family therapists and educational psychologists usually lead the work. An assessment can identify contributing factors such as ADHD, learning difficulties or anxiety.
When to seek urgent help
Contact your local emergency services if a child or teenager is seriously hurting themselves or others, has a weapon, is missing, or talks about suicide. Seek urgent help too if you suspect drug use with signs of intoxication. If you feel you might lose control and harm your child, step away safely and seek support immediately; asking for help is responsible.
What you can do in the meantime
Notice and praise specific good behaviour, and spend a little one-to-one time each day doing something your child enjoys. Keep rules few, clear and consistent between adults, with calm, predictable consequences. Avoid shouting and physical punishment, which tend to worsen behaviour. Look after your own stress and sleep, and talk to the school to work together.
What does a psychotherapist do?
A psychotherapist helps people understand and change emotional, relational and behavioural patterns through a structured therapeutic relationship. Their work is shaped by one or more models, such as cognitive-behavioural, psychodynamic, systemic, humanistic or integrative therapy. They meet individuals, couples, families or groups, usually in regular sessions, and spend time outside sessions on notes, preparation and their own supervision.
When to see a psychotherapist
Psychotherapy suits people who want to work in depth on recurring difficulties: anxiety, low mood, relationship patterns, self-esteem, the effects of past experiences or major life transitions. It can also help when you feel stuck without a clear diagnosis. If you need a formal diagnosis, a specific psychological assessment or medication, a clinical psychologist or psychiatrist may need to be involved.
How to choose
When choosing, check the licence and training, the approach they use and whether they have experience with what you need. Consider practical aspects too: language, price, location or online sessions and availability. The relationship with the professional matters a great deal; if after a few sessions it does not feel right, it is fine to change.
Frequently asked questions
Does the public health system in Israel cover psychological care?
Since the July 2015 mental health insurance reform, psychiatric and psychotherapy services are provided by the four health funds as part of the basic basket. The State Comptroller (2020) and the Myers-JDC-Brookdale Institute found that waiting times for intake and psychotherapy are often very long.
How do I check that a psychotherapist is licensed in Israel?
Ministry of Health, Psychologists' Register (Pinkas HaPsychologim): The title psychologist is protected and only people listed in the Ministry of Health register may use it. Registration alone does not prove a specialisation, so also check for a recognised specialist status (e.g. clinical, educational).