About emotional dependency
Emotional dependency shows as an intense fear of abandonment, needing constant approval or staying in relationships that cause harm. Therapy works on self-esteem, boundaries and the patterns learned in previous relationships.
Therapist is the everyday word for a professional who offers talking therapy: depending on the country it can be a psychologist, a psychotherapist, a licensed counsellor, a marriage and family therapist or a clinical social worker. Profiles show each therapist’s actual title, training and registration.
Getting mental health care in Luxembourg
Public health system · Caisse nationale de santé (CNS)
Psychiatric care by doctors is reimbursed by the CNS, and since 1 February 2023 psychotherapy by authorised psychotherapists is reimbursed at 70% for adults on a fixed tariff. Hospital psychiatric departments and outpatient services are also part of the public system. More information
How to check that a professional is licensed
- Ministry of Health and Social Security (with the Collège médical). The title of psychotherapist is protected by the law of 14 July 2015; practice requires ministerial authorisation, and psychotherapists are listed in the ministry's professional register and the Collège médical's register.
- Ministry of Higher Education and Research. The title of psychologist is protected by law and requires authorisation to use it.
- Collège médical / Ministry of Health and Social Security. Psychiatrists are doctors who must be authorised to practise and registered with the Collège médical.
Typical private fees
- Session with a psychologist
- €144 – €148
Official CNS psychotherapy tariff for a 50-60 minute session set in 2023 (144 EUR, indexed to about 147.60 EUR); not a survey of private fees. Sources
Insurance and coverage
The CNS reimburses 70% of the official psychotherapy tariff for adults when the therapist is an authorised psychotherapist; supplementary insurers may cover part of the rest.
Urgent help in Luxembourg
If your life or someone else's is in danger, call the emergency number now. These services can help at any time:
- 112 · Emergencias
- 45 45 45 · SOS Détresse
Information reviewed in November 2026 · Sources: guichet.public.lu, gouvernement.lu, cns.public.lu
Signs to look out for
Wanting closeness is human. It may be emotional dependency when your well-being depends almost entirely on one person, you feel intense anxiety at the thought of losing them, you constantly seek reassurance, give up your own needs, friends or interests to keep the relationship, or stay in relationships that hurt you because being alone feels unbearable. It can happen with partners, family or friends.
What helps: treatments and professionals
Psychologists and psychotherapists can help you understand where these patterns come from and build a more secure sense of self. Cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT), schema therapy, attachment-focused and psychodynamic approaches are often used, as well as work on self-esteem, assertiveness and boundaries. If the relationship involves control or abuse, specialised support services can also help.
When to seek urgent help
If you are in a relationship where you are threatened, controlled, harmed or afraid, and you are in immediate danger, contact your local emergency services. Specialised domestic violence services can help you plan for safety. Seek urgent help too if the fear of losing someone, or a breakup, leads to thoughts of harming yourself or ending your life.
What you can do in the meantime
Try to rebuild areas of your life that do not depend on one person: friendships, hobbies, time alone and personal goals. Notice when you seek reassurance and practise tolerating a little uncertainty. Writing about your feelings can help you recognise patterns. Lean on people who respect you, and look for reliable information on healthy relationships and warning signs of control.
What does a therapist do?
A therapist helps you talk through what is worrying you and find practical ways to feel and cope better. In sessions they listen, ask questions, help you notice patterns in your thoughts, emotions and relationships, and agree goals with you. Depending on their training they may use cognitive-behavioural, humanistic, systemic, psychodynamic or other evidence-based approaches, with individuals, couples, families or groups.
When to see a therapist
It makes sense to look for a therapist when stress, anxiety, low mood, grief, relationship problems, a difficult change or the effects of past experiences start to weigh on your daily life, or when you simply want space to understand yourself better. If symptoms are severe, you may need medication or there are signs of a medical cause, involve your doctor or a psychiatrist as well.
How to choose
When choosing, check the licence and training, the approach they use and whether they have experience with what you need. Consider practical aspects too: language, price, location or online sessions and availability. The relationship with the professional matters a great deal; if after a few sessions it does not feel right, it is fine to change.
Frequently asked questions
Does the public health system in Luxembourg cover psychological care?
Psychiatric care by doctors is reimbursed by the CNS, and since 1 February 2023 psychotherapy by authorised psychotherapists is reimbursed at 70% for adults on a fixed tariff. Hospital psychiatric departments and outpatient services are also part of the public system.
How do I check that a therapist is licensed in Luxembourg?
Ministry of Health and Social Security (with the Collège médical): The title of psychotherapist is protected by the law of 14 July 2015; practice requires ministerial authorisation, and psychotherapists are listed in the ministry's professional register and the Collège médical's register.
How much does a session with a psychologist cost in Luxembourg?
Usually between €144 and €148 per individual session in private practice. Official CNS psychotherapy tariff for a 50-60 minute session set in 2023 (144 EUR, indexed to about 147.60 EUR); not a survey of private fees.