About behavioral problems
Tantrums, defiance or aggressive behaviour that are frequent and intense can strain family life. Interventions usually involve the parents, with practical strategies for routines, limits and communication, and work with the child adapted to their age.
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Getting mental health care in New Caledonia
Public health system · CHS Albert Bousquet (public mental health hospital)
New Caledonia runs its own health system, and the Centre Hospitalier Spécialisé Albert Bousquet in Nouméa is its only mental health facility. It provides general adult psychiatry, child and adolescent psychiatry and gerontology, with medico-psychological centres (CMP) such as Magenta and Koutio and an outpost in Lifou. More information
How to check that a professional is licensed
- Direction des affaires sanitaires et sociales de Nouvelle-Calédonie (DASS-NC). Health professionals must register their diploma with the DASS-NC, or obtain an authorisation, before practising in New Caledonia. The rules for psychologists' titles in New Caledonia could not be confirmed, so ask for the diploma and DASS registration. Search the official register
Urgent help in New Caledonia
If your life or someone else's is in danger, call the emergency number now. These services can help at any time:
Information reviewed in November 2026 · Sources: chs.nc, lnc.nc, dass.gouv.nc, dass.gouv.nc
Signs to look out for
All children test limits and have tantrums at times. It may be worth seeking help when defiance, aggression, intense tantrums, lying, breaking rules or destructive behaviour are frequent, last for months, happen in several settings such as home and school, and cause problems with family life, learning or friendships. Sudden changes in behaviour can also signal stress, anxiety or difficulties elsewhere.
What helps: treatments and professionals
Parent training programmes based on behavioural principles have strong evidence for children’s behaviour problems. Family therapy and cognitive-behavioural approaches for the child or teenager, including emotional regulation and problem-solving skills, also help. Child and adolescent psychologists, clinical psychologists, family therapists and educational psychologists usually lead the work. An assessment can identify contributing factors such as ADHD, learning difficulties or anxiety.
When to seek urgent help
Contact your local emergency services if a child or teenager is seriously hurting themselves or others, has a weapon, is missing, or talks about suicide. Seek urgent help too if you suspect drug use with signs of intoxication. If you feel you might lose control and harm your child, step away safely and seek support immediately; asking for help is responsible.
What you can do in the meantime
Notice and praise specific good behaviour, and spend a little one-to-one time each day doing something your child enjoys. Keep rules few, clear and consistent between adults, with calm, predictable consequences. Avoid shouting and physical punishment, which tend to worsen behaviour. Look after your own stress and sleep, and talk to the school to work together.
What does a psychotherapist do?
A psychotherapist helps people understand and change emotional, relational and behavioural patterns through a structured therapeutic relationship. Their work is shaped by one or more models, such as cognitive-behavioural, psychodynamic, systemic, humanistic or integrative therapy. They meet individuals, couples, families or groups, usually in regular sessions, and spend time outside sessions on notes, preparation and their own supervision.
When to see a psychotherapist
Psychotherapy suits people who want to work in depth on recurring difficulties: anxiety, low mood, relationship patterns, self-esteem, the effects of past experiences or major life transitions. It can also help when you feel stuck without a clear diagnosis. If you need a formal diagnosis, a specific psychological assessment or medication, a clinical psychologist or psychiatrist may need to be involved.
How to choose
When choosing, check the licence and training, the approach they use and whether they have experience with what you need. Consider practical aspects too: language, price, location or online sessions and availability. The relationship with the professional matters a great deal; if after a few sessions it does not feel right, it is fine to change.
Frequently asked questions
Does the public health system in New Caledonia cover psychological care?
New Caledonia runs its own health system, and the Centre Hospitalier Spécialisé Albert Bousquet in Nouméa is its only mental health facility. It provides general adult psychiatry, child and adolescent psychiatry and gerontology, with medico-psychological centres (CMP) such as Magenta and Koutio and an outpost in Lifou.
How do I check that a psychotherapist is licensed in New Caledonia?
Direction des affaires sanitaires et sociales de Nouvelle-Calédonie (DASS-NC): Health professionals must register their diploma with the DASS-NC, or obtain an authorisation, before practising in New Caledonia. The rules for psychologists' titles in New Caledonia could not be confirmed, so ask for the diploma and DASS registration.