About behavioral problems
Tantrums, defiance or aggressive behaviour that are frequent and intense can strain family life. Interventions usually involve the parents, with practical strategies for routines, limits and communication, and work with the child adapted to their age.
Family therapists work with the whole family or several of its members to improve communication, resolve conflicts and go through changes such as separations, losses or a child’s difficulties. They look at relationships rather than at one person alone.
Getting mental health care in the British Virgin Islands
Public health system · BVI Health Services Authority (BVIHSA) Community Mental Health and Behavioral Health Unit
The BVIHSA runs community mental health and substance abuse services and a Behavioral Health Unit at Dr. D. Orlando Smith Hospital offering psychiatry, counselling and psychotherapy. Patients can self-refer by requesting a consultation or be referred by a GP. National Health Insurance (NHI) includes mental health services in its defined benefit package. More information
How to check that a professional is licensed
- BVI Allied Health Professionals Council (Ministry of Health and Social Development). Psychologists practising in the Virgin Islands register with the Allied Health Professionals Council. Ask the practitioner for their local registration.
- BVI Medical and Dental Council. Doctors, including psychiatrists, must be registered with the Medical and Dental Council to practise in the territory.
Insurance and coverage
National Health Insurance covers mental health services as part of its benefit package, with limits that may apply; many expatriates add private cover.
Urgent help in the British Virgin Islands
If your life or someone else's is in danger, call the emergency number now. These services can help at any time:
- 911 · Emergency (911 / 999)
Information reviewed in November 2026 · Sources: bvihsa.vg, vinhi.vg
Signs to look out for
All children test limits and have tantrums at times. It may be worth seeking help when defiance, aggression, intense tantrums, lying, breaking rules or destructive behaviour are frequent, last for months, happen in several settings such as home and school, and cause problems with family life, learning or friendships. Sudden changes in behaviour can also signal stress, anxiety or difficulties elsewhere.
What helps: treatments and professionals
Parent training programmes based on behavioural principles have strong evidence for children’s behaviour problems. Family therapy and cognitive-behavioural approaches for the child or teenager, including emotional regulation and problem-solving skills, also help. Child and adolescent psychologists, clinical psychologists, family therapists and educational psychologists usually lead the work. An assessment can identify contributing factors such as ADHD, learning difficulties or anxiety.
When to seek urgent help
Contact your local emergency services if a child or teenager is seriously hurting themselves or others, has a weapon, is missing, or talks about suicide. Seek urgent help too if you suspect drug use with signs of intoxication. If you feel you might lose control and harm your child, step away safely and seek support immediately; asking for help is responsible.
What you can do in the meantime
Notice and praise specific good behaviour, and spend a little one-to-one time each day doing something your child enjoys. Keep rules few, clear and consistent between adults, with calm, predictable consequences. Avoid shouting and physical punishment, which tend to worsen behaviour. Look after your own stress and sleep, and talk to the school to work together.
What does a family therapist do?
A family therapist works with families as a system, seeing several members together or in different combinations. Day to day they help families improve communication, manage conflict, adapt to changes such as separation, illness, migration or the arrival of a child, and support a member who is struggling. They look at roles, rules and patterns in the relationships rather than blaming one person.
When to see a family therapist
Family therapy makes sense when tension at home is constant, when a child or teenager’s difficulties affect everyone, after a separation or blended-family transition, during a loss or serious illness, or when communication has broken down between generations. If one person has a severe mental health condition, family therapy can complement, not replace, individual treatment. Couple-only problems may suit couples therapy better.
How to choose
When choosing, check the licence and training, the approach they use and whether they have experience with what you need. Consider practical aspects too: language, price, location or online sessions and availability. The relationship with the professional matters a great deal; if after a few sessions it does not feel right, it is fine to change.
Frequently asked questions
Does the public health system in the British Virgin Islands cover psychological care?
The BVIHSA runs community mental health and substance abuse services and a Behavioral Health Unit at Dr. D. Orlando Smith Hospital offering psychiatry, counselling and psychotherapy. Patients can self-refer by requesting a consultation or be referred by a GP. National Health Insurance (NHI) includes mental health services in its defined benefit package.
How do I check that a family therapist is licensed in the British Virgin Islands?
BVI Allied Health Professionals Council (Ministry of Health and Social Development): Psychologists practising in the Virgin Islands register with the Allied Health Professionals Council. Ask the practitioner for their local registration.